Tuesday 1 July 2014

The rise of teenadults





I saw her at a corner very close to my house with a guy, the next day I saw her with another guy coming out from his room at night and trying to button his trouser belt. I couldn’t see her face but I knew it was the same girl but with different guys. Most guys in the area talks a lot about her, how cheap and easy she is and how good she is in bed (some said). I didn’t know how beautiful and rightly curved she is until I saw her at noon. I saw all the qualities they claimed she had (which are true) but I saw something else that attracted my attention and curiosity. She was a teenager. After conducting a personal investigation out of curiosity, I discovered that she is just 15 but she looks more like 24.
Where has the teenagers gone? Why do teenagers now engage in things that are meant for the married? I thought to myself. As I began to ponder and observe Sarah (not her real name) I discovered that she had some features like big boobs, big hips, good heights, and good smiles and above all she dresses like one of the adults. Which not only deceived the guys but also deceived herself because she thinks she is a big girl (that’s what most of the guys tell her even when they know is false).
Why do teenagers of nowadays so in a hurry to experience adulthood? Why can’t parents scold and manage their teenagers that have turned themselves to teenadults? Is it because of poverty, civilization, modernity, the internet, the entertainment industry, the government or even the boys that who bring themselves so low to sleep and defile these teenagers? Or maybe it’s because of the introduction of contraceptive pills that these teenagers can just put into their mouth and nobody will know what they have been doing even after 9months (unlike before), or maybe it’s because some teenagers think it embarrassing to be known as teenagers. So in order to grow into adulthood overnight, they begin to engage in things that only married people are morally permitted to do.
People and most especially the guys should know that because a girl looks tall, has big boobs, has figure 8 shape, walks like a model, say spoilt words and even tell you that she want you doesn’t mean that she is grown up for it. Men, parents, church, entertainment industry, government, schools, civil society org should stop turning our teenagers to teenadults because there is surely a great repercussion at the very end.
Also, the teenagers should know that sexuality is not the right way to prove that you are now grown up. You can decide to achieve a great feat by coming top in your school, becoming a CEO as a teenager and even starting an NGO that will help impact the lives of the people. Don’t let anyone deceive you that virginity is old school, don’t allow anyone to tell you that you are a big girl and so should and can have sex. Don’t allow peers (DR. Ben Carson call peers as PEOPLE WHO ENCOURAGE ERRORS, RUDENESS AND STUPIDITY) to pressure you into doing things that are not morally, spiritually and emotionally right. Teenagers should focus more on becoming problem solvers, successful people and great achievers in life.
And to round up everything, don’t rush into adulthood that you miss out in the fun of being a teenager.

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